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7627229Burn the Haystackhttps://www.gandhi.com.mx/burn-the-haystack-9780063447561/phttps://gandhi.vtexassets.com/arquivos/ids/7251675/image.jpg?v=638875179049330000542542MXNHarperCollinsInStock/Audiolibros/<p><strong>Its time for a feminist dating revolution! The eagerly awaited first book by the creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method whos transforming the dating world by helping you ditch the duds, preserve your peace, and find your needle.</strong></p><p>How do you find a needle in a haystack? You burn the haystack to the ground.</p><p>Among Dr. Jennie Youngs legion of fans, the needle is a long-term, committed partner and the haystack is the dating apps. So often women are advised to give the guy a chanceeven if the guy is a lazy communicator or looking for someone fluent in sarcasm. Youngs refreshing approach to online dating turns this advice on its head: Give almost <em>no one</em> a chance.</p><p>A professor of rhetoric and womens and gender studies, Young has built a career teaching how to decode the hidden meanings in ordinary communication. Fascinated by the rhetorical gambits she saw in mens profiles when she began dating again at fifty, she created the Burned Haystack Dating Method Facebook group to help other women in the same position. Her group has quickly grown to more than 200,000 members and become <em>the</em> smart womans guide to online dating sanity.</p><p>Young has revolutionized the dating lexicon, calling out rhetorical patterns to watch for in mens communication:</p><ul><li>Im a very busy man!: Leading with this language establishes him at the top of the hierarchy and frames him as a reward for a worthy woman.</li><li>Test and Apologize: He texts something sexual, then apologizes before she can respond, pretending it was an accident. Hes testing if shell be okay with immediate objectification. <em>The test is real; the apology isnt.</em></li><li>My kids come first: Taken literally, this sounds like a good dad. But if you examine the <em>sub</em>text and the <em>con</em>text, hes in effect saying, Dont expect too much from me.</li></ul><p>Youngs engaging system empowers readers to sort through profiles quickly and effectivelyand preserve their sanity. And with its blend of scathing humor and academic rigor, <em>Burn the Haystack</em> is so much more than a dating toolit gives women the skills to break down communication from the classroom to the boardroom and everywhere in between, and the confidence to approach life with a deeper, more powerful level of understanding.</p>...7236000Burn the Haystack542542https://www.gandhi.com.mx/burn-the-haystack-9780063447561/phttps://gandhi.vtexassets.com/arquivos/ids/7251675/image.jpg?v=638875179049330000InStockMXN99999PR_DIAudiolibro20269780063447561_W3siaWQiOiI0NGI1ODFjNy02YTg0LTRhZDAtODcyOC04N2EzZTllNjQxMzUiLCJsaXN0UHJpY2UiOjU0MiwiZGlzY291bnQiOjAsInNlbGxpbmdQcmljZSI6NTQyLCJpbmNsdWRlc1RheCI6dHJ1ZSwicHJpY2VUeXBlIjoiV2hvbGVzYWxlIiwiY3VycmVuY3kiOiJNWE4iLCJmcm9tIjoiMjAyNS0wNy0wN1QyMDowMDowMFoiLCJyZWdpb24iOiJNWCIsImlzUHJlb3JkZXIiOnRydWUsImlzRWxpZ2libGVGb3JDcmVkaXRUcmlhbCI6dHJ1ZSwiY3JlZGl0UHVyY2hhc2VQcmljZSI6MX1d9780063447561_<p><strong>Its time for a feminist dating revolution! The eagerly awaited first book by the creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method whos transforming the dating world by helping you ditch the duds, preserve your peace, and find your needle.</strong></p><p>How do you find a needle in a haystack? You burn the haystack to the ground.</p><p>Among Dr. Jennie Youngs legion of fans, the needle is a long-term, committed partner and the haystack is the dating apps. So often women are advised to give the guy a chanceeven if the guy is a lazy communicator or looking for someone fluent in sarcasm. Youngs refreshing approach to online dating turns this advice on its head: Give almost <em>no one</em> a chance.</p><p>A professor of rhetoric and womens and gender studies, Young has built a career teaching how to decode the hidden meanings in ordinary communication. Fascinated by the rhetorical gambits she saw in mens profiles when she began dating again at fifty, she created the Burned Haystack Dating Method Facebook group to help other women in the same position. Her group has quickly grown to more than 200,000 members and become <em>the</em> smart womans guide to online dating sanity.</p><p>Young has revolutionized the dating lexicon, calling out rhetorical patterns to watch for in mens communication:</p><ul><li>Im a very busy man!: Leading with this language establishes him at the top of the hierarchy and frames him as a reward for a worthy woman.</li><li>Test and Apologize: He texts something sexual, then apologizes before she can respond, pretending it was an accident. Hes testing if shell be okay with immediate objectification. <em>The test is real; the apology isnt.</em></li><li>My kids come first: Taken literally, this sounds like a good dad. But if you examine the <em>sub</em>text and the <em>con</em>text, hes in effect saying, Dont expect too much from me.</li></ul><p>Youngs engaging system empowers readers to sort through profiles quickly and effectivelyand preserve their sanity. And with its blend of scathing humor and academic rigor, <em>Burn the Haystack</em> is so much more than a dating toolit gives women the skills to break down communication from the classroom to the boardroom and everywhere in between, and the confidence to approach life with a deeper, more powerful level of understanding.</p>...9780063447561_HarperCollinsaudiolibro_9780063447561_9780063447561Jennie YoungInglésMéxico2026-04-07T00:00:00+00:00NoMINUTE2026-04-07T00:00:00+00:00HarperCollins