1507697Hold On to Your Kidshttps://www.gandhi.com.mx/hold-on-to-your-kids-3/phttps://gandhi.vtexassets.com/arquivos/ids/783739/7eaa32e6-8e4d-40f3-9d54-485efa2228d0.jpg?v=638336200853400000339471MXNKnopf CanadaInStock/Ebooks/NATIONAL BESTSELLER This parenting classicas relevant today as it was when it was first publishedshines a light on one of the most misunderstood trends of our time: peers, social media, and on-screen culture replacing parents in the lives of children, and what parents can do about it.With a new chapter addressing mental health in school-aged kids since the pandemic.Children take their lead from their friends: being cool matters more than anything else. Shaping values, identity, and codes of behaviour, peer groups are often far more influential than parents. But this situation is far from natural, and it can be dangerousit undermines family cohesion, interferes with healthy development, and fosters a hostile and sexualized youth culture. Children end up becoming conformist, anxious, and alienated.In Hold On to Your Kids, acclaimed physician and bestselling author Gabor Maté joins forces with psychologist Gordon Neufeld to pinpoint the causes of this breakdown and offer practical advice on how to reattach to your children, make children feel safe and understood, and earn back your childrens loyalty and love. This updated edition also addresses the unprecedented parenting challenges posed by the rise of digital devices and social media.By helping to reawaken our instincts, Maté and Neufeld empower parents to be what nature intended: a true source of enrichment, security, and warmth for their children....1490097Hold On to Your Kids339471https://www.gandhi.com.mx/hold-on-to-your-kids-3/phttps://gandhi.vtexassets.com/arquivos/ids/783739/7eaa32e6-8e4d-40f3-9d54-485efa2228d0.jpg?v=638336200853400000InStockMXN99999DIEbook20119780307375490_W3siaWQiOiJhZmY1MDk1Zi00ZWYyLTQ0ZGUtODY1NS1lMTk3MTAwODAwMDMiLCJsaXN0UHJpY2UiOjQ1OSwiZGlzY291bnQiOjEyOSwic2VsbGluZ1ByaWNlIjozMzAsImluY2x1ZGVzVGF4Ijp0cnVlLCJwcmljZVR5cGUiOiJXaG9sZXNhbGUiLCJjdXJyZW5jeSI6Ik1YTiIsImZyb20iOiIyMDI0LTEyLTAxVDAwOjAwOjAwWiIsInJlZ2lvbiI6Ik1YIiwiaXNQcmVvcmRlciI6ZmFsc2V9XQ==9780307375490_A psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting issues joins forces with a physician and bestselling author to tackle one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time -- peers replacing parents in the lives of our children.Dr. Neufeld has dubbed this phenomenon peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction: for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identity and codes of behaviour. But peer orientation undermines family cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters an aggressively hostile and sexualized youth culture. It provides a powerful explanation for schoolyard bullying and youth violence; its effects are painfully evident in the context of teenage gangs and criminal activity, in tragedies such as in Littleton, Colorado; Tabor, Alberta and Victoria, B.C. It is an escalating trend that has never been adequately described or contested until Hold On to Your Kids. Once understood, it becomes self-evident -- as do the solutions.Hold On to Your Kids will restore parenting to its natural intuitive basis and the parent-child relationship to its rightful preeminence. The concepts, principles and practical advice contained in Hold On to Your Kids will empower parents to satisfy their childrens inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.Something has changed. One can sense it, one can feel it, just not find the words for it. Children are not quite the same as we remember being. They seem less likely to take their cues from adults, less inclined to please those in charge, less afraid of getting into trouble. Parenting, too, seems to have changed. Our parents seemed more confident, more certain of themselves and had more impact on us, for better or for worse. For many, parenting does not feel natural. Adults through the ages have complained about children being less respectful of their elders and more difficult to manage than preceding generations, but could it be that this time it is for real? -- from Hold On to Your Kids...9780307375490_Knopf Canadalibro_electonico_575b232b-b82f-4faf-a90a-3cbf8a18961c_9780307375490;9780307375490_9780307375490Gabor MatéInglésMéxicohttps://getbook.kobo.com/koboid-prod-public/RandomHouse-epub-44faa934-d3a9-49fa-9798-2c0d2d5c5ef7.epub2011-11-30T00:00:00+00:00Knopf Canada